To Explain @ to Ask is Not Rude

One of the reasons I write blog is because, in real life most of the time we just didn’t got chance, or be given chance to explain what we do, while we actually think a lot of things in our mind. Of course we need to express only ideas that didn’t give harm to others’ feelings or the logical, reasonable one only. After all what’s our point to give thoughts that will turn useless?


I also used to write blogs before. That was some previous years before. But maybe this time a bit difference from my previous blogs which I already deleted them for some personal reasons. Age might be the main factor that contributes to the changes.  :p

By being not to put blame on our society, I think it is just a TREND that some people will think that we are rude when we answer people or when we ask too much things that we would like to know. (of course, jgnlah kita tanya soalan yg boleh buatkan org rasa sensitif, kann..) The problem we can see when among local university’s students (I used uni example, because that’s what I am in now), not all but mostly students refuse to ask or answer lecturer’s question during class discussion. The reason is because they afraid that they might giving the wrong answers! But, actually it is NO WRONG to give the WRONG ANSWERS because we are in the learning processes.

We don’t directly run right after we born. Do you? We learn things steps by steps. From just lying on our back to trying to turn our body to right/left side, then we managed to lie on our chest, then we learn to strengthen our hands and legs, wanting to crawl, then we managed to crawl slowly, then we learn to sit on our own, months by months, then we learn to stand, walk, runs and etc. It’s a learning process. We may fell down and failed many times in our attempts in each steps, but we still keeping our effort! So do not afraid to make unintentionally mistakes but do mend the mistakes back after we know which part that we did it wrongly!


A baby is socially constructed by the environment that she/he lived in. How people treat, how people react to her/him made up how she/he reacts back to people around him/her. This also affecting the way she/he will thinks. As Malay proverb says: melentur buluh biarlah dari rebungnya. A kid that always being tortured, without knowing her/his fault will grow up being a problematic kid.


Back to main idea, only a person, who feels the other person that asks/explains beyond their ego, will conclude that the particular person is rude. To stabilize and to avoid these kinds of situation, have a good manner while asking/explaining. Be positive in accepting others’ ideas. All the best in life <3 ~!


I’m in a learning process as well, and will always be!

Cakes & I

Talking about my dreams. I actually owned this one dream. To have the actual cakes & bakery business and maybe run it with my mum or sister(s). It started when I was still in primary school that mum used to sell cakes for hari raya or chinese new year festivals for customers at our place. Mostly her friends, friends of friends. Mum doing it because she herself enjoys it, i bet and to earn extra income for family. For many years it was and till this moment that me and my sisters all knew & had learnt the skills of baking/steaming cakes from mum. Thanks mum! 

We still taking orders but usually during festival seasons only. But me myself & am pretty sure my sisters as well do fell in love with what we are doing. Dari kecik lagi dh belajar carik duit, jual karipap & donut around my residential area, sampai kena kejar dgn anjing.:P

Balik kampung, tolong nenek jual rambutan keliling kampung & penah jual ikan terubok masin juak pusing kampung. Together with our cousin.

Very much appreciate the experiences that we had gained which, you can't learn it from school. From university nowadays, YES! Memang ada kelas keusahawanan. :) Back to my focus, i hope to achieve this another one dream of mine as i love seeing all those beautiful decorated cakes & do enjoy eating them as well. But now, i have to finish my study first before come out and making life :) //gambatte kudasai!

The enjoyful moment is when your customer(s) is satisfied with what you've made & they repeat buying. Alhamdulillah.

p/s: Just sharing what i love <3 ^^

Life Without Pains ~!

Allah's beautiful creation <3 Subhanallah

Can you imagine life without any pains?

Ever heard this quote?:

No pain no gain

And this one?:

No horse gets anywhere until he is harnessed. No stream or gas drives anything until it is confined. No Niagara is ever turned into light and power until it is tunneled. No life ever grows great until it is focused, dedicated, disciplined.

Harry E. Fosdick

What ever comes to you in life, treat it cool, think positive and never give up on your own goals. Obstacles will always there for every person who desired to do the best in their life. Sometimes, we are down, sometimes we are up high, but do keep in mind that, no pains will stay long, and no good times always stay good. Smile <3 !